Category: British

It’s so basic.  It’s there in just about every religion.  It’s there in the modern secular world too. It’s written in just about every ancient writing about human behaviour. 

“So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you.”  This simple rule can be worded in different ways.  I remember it, maybe from long ago at Sunday school in Horsington church as: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.  Equally it could be put as: Treat others the same way you want them to treat you.

People are scratching around for statements that are undeniably true or guaranteed concerning the EU referendum on 23 June.  Well here’s one; after the referendum no matter what the result this simple rule will continue to apply.  In the world of international trade it can be called; Reciprocity.  A definition of reciprocity looks like this: “a relationship between people involving the exchange of goods, services, favours, or obligations, especially a mutual exchange of privileges between trading nations.”

So, if I’m sitting in a Government office in Westminster and decided to increase a trade tariff on say; steel coming into Britain I would reasonably expect the reciprocal to happen.  That is that; the Countries impacted by our decision would take an action to rebalance or redress the situation.  

Equally, if I’m sitting in a Government office in Westminster and decide to increase or change immigration policy and restrict the movement of people I would reasonably expect the reciprocal to happen.  That is that; the Countries and/or the trading blocs impacted by our decision would change their policy towards British citizens. 

One way of looking at this is to consider the highly interconnected nature of the world and rightly conclude that; “no man is an island”.  Something will be done in return to my actions – that’s a certainty.  I’ve see the British Press describe this as a “threat”.  By pointing out that in the real world reciprocity happens we see the two sides of the coin.  In other words; I do something bad then you do something bad or just the same; I do something good then you do something good.  Personally, growing up with three brothers we all learned this at a young age. 

We have to ask ourselves, with all modesty, was Jesus issuing a threat in the Sermon on the Mount?  I don’t think that was the intention.  The simple command or law just sums up something everyone knew at the time but occasionally choose to forget. 

Today, Vote Leave is choosing to ignore this rule big time.  Vote REMAIN understand the this golden rule very well.  You should too.  Let it guild you in the way you vote. 

Chancing my arm writing on this subject. I’ll narrow it down to the suburban British Character. I’ll leave the country set to another time. There’s about 25 million of us packed into the South East of England and lots more scattered across this fair island.
It used to be possible to draw a picture of a British policeman or woman and compare that picture with an American or a Continental European equivalent and the differences were immediately obvious. Not anymore but with one visible exception – a gun. The idea that the police were just citizens in uniform is different from viewing them as an arm of the State employed to enforce the law. Some of this British picture is mythology but that still matters because it impacts public behaviour. Undeniably there is a convergence going on where in years to come it will be impossible to tell police officers apart. Perhaps this is inevitable given that the threats we face are likely to be common ones.
Moving on. There are a lot of images locked in our collective memories, usually based on black and white movies that stereotype the British character or should I say characters? Now, I will get into trouble. Except for the gifted few, there’s reason to say that the British are not good at the art of conversation. It’s true the British weather in its infinite variety always gives us a place to start. Moaning about the trains, busses and planes provides a good kicking off point too. However, these paths are so well trodden than no blade of grass can grow. Our humour is full of stereotypes verbally tripping over themselves to the amusement of others. Pedants will pick you up on grammatical errors with a smug smile knowing how much irritation they cause. Freely expressed opinions can be trumpeted without any consideration for the consequences.
I recently came across a Punch cartoon by Pont. It’s beautifully concise. A middle aged man, presumably a neighbour, is leaning on a garden wall with his arms folded look straight at you and saying: “I suppose you know you’re doing that all wrong.”
That one small drawing from the 1940s communicates a whole doctorate of study on the British character. I can see elements of this in the way the debate is going in the run-up to the referendum on UK membership of the EU. It’s coming more from the Leave camp than the Remain camp but it’s there nevertheless. Maybe in our public conversations we need to find a better way to persuade people rather than saying to them bluntly: “I suppose you know you’re completely wrong.”